Remember Me Discussion - Outside the Film

Is there an underlying theme of violence in Remember Me? How does violence affect each of the characters.

Remember Me Discussion - Outside the Film

Have you ever ordered dessert first? Is there anything that you have done that is similar to this?

Remember Me Discussion - Outside the Film

"The script was imbued with a consistent and timely theme, namely: what happens when a bolt out of the blue collides with and shatters our well-ordered world? How does one survive these unexpected and inexplicable shocks? And how does it alter us as human beings? ~Allen Coulter

Is this one of the reasons that this film resonates with so many?

Remember Me Discussion - Outside the Film

"I can't deal with this brooding, introverted shit anymore man." ~Aidan

Critics complained that Robert was too brooding in the role of Tyler. Did they latch onto this line and run with it?

Do you agree that Tyler brooded too much or were the other aspects of his personality that were ignored by them.

Remember Me Discussion - Outside the Film

After the short hiatus,I'm going to try something a little different with the Remember Me discussion group. Questions will deal with the film outside of the actual movie. Let me know what you think!



Do you think that the negative reaction to the ending of the film would have been lessened if the 9/11 aspect would have been alluded to in the marketing? Or,do you think that knowing beforehand would have lessened the impact of the film?

Remember Me Discussion Group

Many people have said that RM has a message. For you, what is it?

Remember Me Discussion Group

Do the characters in Remember Me "live in the moments"?

Remember Me Discussion Group

Charles tells Tyler he doesn't know what love is. Why does he do this to Tyler? Is he right? Does Charles himself know what love is?

Remember Me Discussion Group

What's your impression of how men and women react to it? How differently and how much the same?

Remember Me Discussion Group

We have commented before about the similarities between Ally's father and Tyler. Do you think that there are similarities between Ally and Tyler's mother?

Remember Me Discussion Group

'You're responsible for no one!' Charles yells at Tyler. Is this true?

Remember Me Discussion Group

Care to share? How many times have you watched RM? What keeps bringing you back?

Remember Me Discussion Group

When we first see grown-up Ally and Neil together, in their home, hurrying breakfast before they head out for the day, Ally puts what looks like a prescription medication in her Dad's coffee mug. What kind of condition do you think Neil has? Also, does Ally 'mother' him?

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Caroline puts 4 stones on Michael's grave. Does each represent a member of the family? Why isn't there one for /from Les?

Remember Me Discussion Group

After the fight in the alley, Tyler and Aiden are in jail. Does it seem like this is the first time?

Remember Me Discussion Group

At the sweets shop, why does Charles interrupt the delightful exchange--Whistler--between Tyler and Caroline ("Pass the sugar.")? How does he feel about the beautiful relationship between his two remaining children?

Remember Me Discussion Group

Why does the thief shoot Ally's Mom?

Remember Me Discussion Group

Why does Tyler smoke in the reception area of his Dad's office and irritate the receptionist?

Remember Me Discussion Group

Do you think Caroline is growing up too fast? She gives Tyler a wake-up call, nags him about his smoking and drinking habits.

Remember Me Discussion Group

Did Ally really forget her first date with Tyler?